When it comes to what brings them sexual gratification, every woman is a world apart, although some essential elements make women enjoy the overall experience. In the long run, that’s what leads to everyone’s ultimate satisfaction.
Many men wish they could read their woman’s mind when they are in bed to know how to satisfy them to their pleasure, they try to figure it out, but many don’t get it. Well, there is no recipe; it’s pretty simple. Generally, women wish for genuine intimacy apart from strict desire; they always want something different. Notwithstanding, you need to sit down and talk with your woman about what you both like in bed before hopping on the ride.

So we interviewed six women and asked them to tell us what they would like from men in the bedroom.

Each woman was real, raw and honest. They each preferred to remain anonymous, but this should help the men know what to do with women between ages twenty to fifty when the doors are locked, and it’s just them both having adult pleasure time.

Women in Their 20s

“Don’t ask me for anal. I hate it when guys feel like they want to experiment with me. When you get married, do it with your wife. Leave me alone.”

“I want his hands moving non-stop. I love it when he keeps touching and caressing me as he is inside me.”

Women in Their 30s

“I’m quite adventurous, so anything goes, really. I love it when my man spanks me and calls me a bi@#h. Spank me, say dirty things to me. That is such a turn-on.”

“I like it when he shags me in front of a mirror. Sometimes I ask him to fantasise that he is not with me. I tell him to imagine he is with a whore, and f#&@ me like he is with one. It’s much more steamy that way.”

Women in Their 40s

“He needs to take his time with me. Take me out, or even if it’s at his, wine and dine me. Kiss me gently, teasing me but very softly. I love it when he taps my c#&@ with his, you know what. But he must be clean because I enjoy licking every inch of a man. I would typically start in the shower, cleaning him up, and then it’s a full-blown session of mixed sex, gentle yet wild at the same time. That’s how I enjoy it.”

“As long as he is giving it to me from behind, it’s fine. Just don’t pull my hair. Do that, and it’s over. IMMEDIATELY!”

Women in Their 50s

“He must be a gentleman; most importantly, he must be mentally stimulating and clean. Sex must be pleasurable for both of us, not a race he hopes to win.”

“He needs to let me know he’s into me. I want to feel him love me and want me, not the other way around.”

Although our culture doesn’t expect women to speak in the bedroom, more and more women are being emancipated from sexual slavery and are now more comfortable saying what they would like in the bedroom. And what’s more? The men are totally into it.

Dorcas Akintoye
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Dorcas Akintoye is a versatile writer with a passion for beauty, fashion, relationships, and culinary delight. With a keen eye for detail and a passion for storytelling, she adds a touch of elegance to every topic she explores. She is a writer at THEWILL DOWNTOWN.