In an industry as fast-moving and ever evolving as Nollywood, few names carry the weight of legacy like Tony Umez. With a filmography that stretches over two decades and performances etched into the cultural memory of millions, Umez stands as one of the most recognisable and revered actors in Nigerian cinema. His soft-spoken charm, expressive eyes, and unforgettable emotional delivery made him a staple in countless family dramas, epic tales, and romantic tragedies that defined the golden era of Nollywood in the late 1990s and early 2000s.

But behind the iconic roles and celebrated scenes lies a man of remarkable depth — a husband, a father, a thinker, and a lover of the arts beyond the screen. In this exclusive with THEWILL DOWNTOWN’s Johnson Chukwueke, Tony Umez opens up about his journey through fame, the evolution of Nollywood, the values that anchor his personal life, and how fatherhood and faith continue to shape his worldview.

Tony Umez

From Died Wretched to Blood Sister and dozens more, his presence in Nigerian films has always come with a sense of emotional honesty. Years later, Umez reflects with humility and wisdom that only time can offer. This conversation is not just about movies; it’s about meaning, memory, and the quiet power of staying true to oneself, both on camera and off.

Step into the world of the man who made millions feel deeply and continues to do so — this time, through his story.

You’ve been in Nollywood for over two decades. Looking back, what would you say has been the most defining moment of your career?

Yes, I have been in Nollywood for over two decades. I think the most defining moment of my career was when I competed against two of Nollywood’s greatest at that time for the lead male role in the movie, Died Wretched: Buried In A N2.3M Casket, and got the role. That alone made me believe that I have a place in Nollywood.

Your roles often portray a wide emotional range—from romantic to villainous. Which type of role challenges you the most and why?

Every role has its challenges, but emotional roles are more challenging because you have to dig deep, very deep, to portray the character effectively.

You took a break from acting at some point. What inspired that hiatus, and what brought you back to the screen?

I didn’t take a break. It just happened. Though there was a time I heard that they, the producers, said I didn’t have an epic face (whatever that meant), (laughs) so I couldn’t be cast as a character in their so-called epic movies. But hey, in a creative enterprise, there are lows, and there are highs.

Do you feel Nollywood has evolved positively in terms of storytelling, production, and professionalism since you started?

Yes, we’ve evolved positively in storytelling and production because technology has come and improved everything. However, when it comes to professionalism, I have my reservations.

Many fans remember you from the golden age of Nollywood VHS films. How do you see yourself fitting into today’s streaming-driven industry?

How do I see myself fitting in? I am already in. I have done many movies that are on YouTube and Netflix.

You’ve starred in some of Nollywood’s most iconic films. Are there any you wish you had done differently, or roles you turned down and now regret?

Yes, I have. To God be the Glory.
Let me tell you something: for every character a creative portrays, when he or she views the movie, there’s always something one could have done better. That doesn’t mean your portrayal wasn’t top-notch. It means you have matured a bit more creatively.

And no, I have no regrets whatsoever about the roles I’ve rejected. See, I go through a script thoroughly before I decide to be a part of it. And I have a fee in my head for the role.

If it doesn’t pan out fee-wise, we shake hands on it and move on. If the script is “wash wash”, I also back out.

Are there any younger actors you admire or would love to work with in future projects?

Oh yes, there are some younger, very talented actors that I admire and have worked with, and there are some I would want to work with in future projects. I am not calling names, though.

What’s one Nollywood myth or misconception you’d like to debunk for your fans?

The myth that we are “unserious” about life. An actor is the most disciplined person you can ever meet. Our job requires discipline, commitment, precision, and tunnel-vision focus. There are bad eggs, just like in every other profession, but in the main, the actor is it.

You’ve been married for over 24 years—a rarity in entertainment.

What’s the secret to maintaining such a solid family foundation?

(Laughs) It’s not by my power or might but by God’s Grace. I guess when you marry the woman meant for you, everything falls into place. Yes, love, commitment, tolerance, perseverance, but above all, God. Yes, God, because after all of these, one’s marriage can still hit the rocks.

You’re a proud father of four daughters. What values are most important to you as a parent in today’s world?

I am a very proud father of four lovely, beautiful, talented, and loving daughters. I love them to bits. Well, as a parent, I cherish honesty, integrity, discipline, respect for yourself and others, and the love and fear of God. Instill these in your children as a parent, and you will never go wrong.

What’s a day like for Tony Umez when he’s not acting—any hobbies, routines, or guilty pleasures?

Guilty pleasures? Haaa, don’t rain on my parade. Hmmm, seriously speaking though, I watch movies, play games, try to spend quality time with my family, and sleep. I love sleep like crazy.

You’ve managed to stay scandal-free in an industry that thrives on gossip. How have you kept your personal life so grounded?

It can only be God. However, I focus on my family and my job and try to be simple and straightforward in everything I do. I don’t take shortcuts. I don’t bite more than I can chew.

Johnson Chukwueke
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